Frequently Asked Questions
My spouse and I have never taken dance lessons. Will we feel out of place around more advanced dancers?
Not at all! You’ll feel right at home at our events, where it’s easy to meet new couples and make lasting friendships. Our members range from beginners to seasoned dancers—and many have never taken lessons. We’re as much a social club as we are a dance club. Nobody judges how well you dance. If you get on the floor and enjoy yourself, you’ll fit right in and have fun.
What styles of dance music do the bands play?
We offer a wide variety of styles at each event. You can expect classic ballroom dances like rumba, cha cha, waltz, foxtrot, swing, and west coast swing. We often include Latin favorites such as merengue, salsa, and bachata. You’ll also hear party songs for freestyle dancing and romantic slow dances. Popular line dances like the Cupid Shuffle are frequently included and easy to follow. Our music spans decades—from the 70s and 80s to current hits. While we may include a few country songs, we are not a country-western dance club.
Are you similar to a dance studio?
No, we’re not a studio. Occasionally, we offer a simple group dance lesson before the band begins, but participation is always optional. From time to time, we also feature showcase performances by competitive dance couples for everyone’s enjoyment. Our focus is fun, connection, and community.
Are you a singles club?
No. We are a social and dance club for couples. Singles are welcome to join with the understanding that they will bring a dance partner to each event. It does not need to be the same person each time, nor does it have to be a romantic partner—just someone you enjoy dancing with. Singles pay the same membership fee as couples.
If an event has a theme—like a Roaring Twenties night—am I required to dress up?
Not at all. Themed attire and suggested colors are always optional. Many members enjoy dressing to the theme for the fun of it, but there’s no pressure.
Can I join midseason?
Yes, you may join at any time, provided we haven’t reached our membership capacity. Membership is $150 per couple per year. If you join later in the season, we may apply part or all of your dues toward the following season—we’ll work with you to be fair.
Do I have to join the club, or can I just attend events as a guest?
First-time guests may attend one event by paying the guest fee. After that, we ask you to join by paying the $150 annual membership fee per couple. This helps us plan responsibly for each season by covering advance deposits for bands and venues.
Do any of your board members get paid?
We are a nonprofit club, meaning no one profits financially from club operations. Our volunteer board plans and manages events and pays the same dues and event fees as other members. No one receives discounts, special treatment, or compensation. Every dollar collected goes toward making our events enjoyable and memorable.
How do you determine the cost of the dinner dances?
Our events are thoughtfully planned to provide a full and memorable evening, and several key elements contribute to the cost—elegant venues, live bands, delicious meals, and festive decorations. That said, we believe the experience offers outstanding value. Where else can you enjoy hours of live music, dancing on a spacious floor, great food, and warm, welcoming company in a beautiful ballroom setting? Social events are always free for members.
Are your events BYOB?
No. Our venues provide alcohol for purchase, including beer, wine, and mixed drinks. To comply with their liquor licenses, outside alcohol is not allowed.
Do I need to come with a partner to attend an event?
Yes, we all bring a dance partner to enjoy the event. You’ll find a welcoming community and plenty of opportunities to dance and socialize.
Do all of the dances require a partner, or are there times when groups get out on the dance floor just for fun, like with line dancing?
While many dances are done with a partner, we also enjoy fun group dances. Line dancing is always a hit, and during certain party favorites, you’ll often see groups of ladies dancing together just for fun. It’s also a great time for some of the gentlemen to take a break and socialize. Of course, couples are welcome to stay on the floor and dance together if they prefer.
What if I’m shy or new to social dancing? Will I still feel welcome?
Absolutely. We’re a friendly group that loves welcoming new faces. Whether you’re here primarily to dance or make new friends, we’ll make sure you feel right at home.
Can I bring a couple who’s not a member?
Of course! Guests couples are welcome for a fee if we are not at full capacity for an event. It’s a great way for them to check out the club and maybe become part of the fun in the future. We strongly encourage inviting guests.
What is the best way to stay informed about events?
Our Evites, Facebook page, and website are your go-to sources for the latest updates. We also send occasional emails with news, reminders, and fun extras. One of the perks of club membership is access to our members-only Facebook page, where you'll find announcements about events, casual get-togethers, and spontaneous outings. We’re all about dancing and socializing—stay connected and don’t miss the fun!
Can I dance with different partners throughout the night?
Our events are primarily designed as couple’s dances, so guests typically dance with the partner they came with. We do not rotate partners during the evening. However, we often include group dances and line dances, which are a fun way to dance without a partner and still enjoy the music and energy of the room. These are great opportunities to get up, mingle, and move with everyone!
How can I meet new people at the event?
Events are designed with mingling in mind! We have a relaxed atmosphere that makes striking up a conversation easy.
Do I need prior dance experience to attend?
Nope! Whether you’re just starting out or have been dancing for years, you’re welcome here. Our events are about having fun, not perfection.
What if I don’t know how to dance at all?
That’s totally okay! Some people attend mainly to enjoy the atmosphere. And if you’re curious, someone’s always happy to show you a few simple steps. No pressure—just good vibes and good company!
Is there a dance floor etiquette I should know about?
Just a few basics: be courteous, take turns, avoid blocking traffic on the floor, and be mindful of your partner’s comfort. For traveling dances like waltz and foxtrot, move counterclockwise around the floor. Dancers who are not traveling should stay toward the center. Most of all—smile and have fun!
What makes this club different from other social or dance clubs?
We blend the many benefits of dancing with the joy of shared experiences. Our club is built around romance, music, and meaningful friendships. At every event, you’ll find more than just dancing—you’ll find laughter, connection, and a warm, welcoming atmosphere. It’s more than just a night out. It’s truly a celebration of life, love, and community.
How do I get more involved or volunteer?
We love helping hands! Whether it’s decorating, greeting guests, or helping plan an event, there are lots of ways to join in. Just let a board member know you are interested, and we’ll be thrilled to have your help!